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Amanda Cooke's avatar

Michelle thank you for this, it landed deep for me. I really struggle to just do nothing without it being earned.That impulse towards making productive use of my time, even down time ie listen to a podcast while I rest, make a list, do something, anything other than really rest is internalised capitalism on steroids. I think one of the hardest things I had to work through with chronic pain was the life ‘wasted’ when I was incapacitated, the shame associated with being put out of production. My life goal now is to learn how to nap!

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Kara Norman's avatar

Really good questions you are posing and something we all need to take a close look at. The idea of "productivity" is such an illusion and so tied to our addictive egos, I think! That said, I'm going to take a crack at these answers...

"When was the last time you ‘did less for no good reason’, without an excuse? Did you have uncomfortable feelings about that, then or after?" --> after my brain surgery, I had about six months of uninterrupted rest. I was still active and upright, but I gave myself a lot of time to journal and paint and walk in the woods. It was easier then because I was "recovering from surgery" etc. But I deeply believe in these periods in life, and want to protect those mental spaces in our culture because they are so important/instructive for the soul! We genuinely need that spaciousness in order to learn and grow and tune into our deepest selves...

"How do you earn rest? Write a list of acceptable reasons to rest or do less." --> I am less good at resting now, but sometimes I am more able to listen when my body is like: HEY I'M SERIOUS WE NEED A NAP. So I earn rest sometimes just by physical collapse, lol. I've also noticed that sometimes I can't do the work I'm supposed to do anymore until AFTER I've played. It's a new recipe for productivity: fill up the tank, then press the gas - not the other way around, as it used to be...

What a great idea, to listen to Hersey's "Rest Is Resistance." I have loved her ideas when she speaks in interviews.

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